Social Desirability and Its Effect on Help-Seeking: Mediated by Shame

Authors

    Angel Lee Faculty of Social Sciences & Liberal Arts, Department of Psychology, UCSI University, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
    Amirul Iskandar * Department of Psychology, University of Malaya, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia amirul@um.edu.my
https://doi.org/10.61838/

Keywords:

Help-seeking behavior, Social desirability, Shame, Mediation, Mental health stigma, Malaysia, Structural Equation Modeling

Abstract

Objective: The present study aimed to investigate the relationship between social desirability and help-seeking behavior, with shame as a mediating variable, among a sample of Malaysian participants.

Methods and Materials: This research employed a descriptive correlational design and was conducted on a sample of 391 participants from Malaysia, selected based on the Morgan and Krejcie sample size table. Standardized instruments were used to assess help-seeking (General Help-Seeking Questionnaire), social desirability (Marlowe-Crowne Social Desirability Scale), and shame (Experience of Shame Scale). Data were analyzed using SPSS-27 for descriptive statistics and Pearson correlation analysis, and AMOS-21 was employed to conduct Structural Equation Modeling (SEM) to test the hypothesized mediation model and assess the model fit using key indices such as CFI, RMSEA, and TLI.

Findings: Descriptive analysis revealed moderate levels of help-seeking (M = 4.62, SD = 1.13), high social desirability (M = 21.87, SD = 4.76), and elevated shame (M = 68.34, SD = 9.51). Pearson correlation analysis showed that social desirability was negatively correlated with help-seeking (r = −.41, p < .001) and positively with shame (r = .46, p < .001), while shame was negatively correlated with help-seeking (r = −.52, p < .001). SEM results indicated that the structural model had good fit (CFI = 0.97, RMSEA = 0.048, TLI = 0.96), with shame significantly mediating the relationship between social desirability and help-seeking. Both direct and indirect effects of social desirability on help-seeking were statistically significant.

Conclusion: The findings highlight that shame plays a critical mediating role in the negative relationship between social desirability and help-seeking behavior. Interventions aimed at reducing internalized shame and addressing socially desirable responding may be essential for improving help-seeking behaviors, especially in cultural contexts where stigma and social expectations are prominent.

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Published

2025-03-20

Submitted

2024-01-03

Revised

2025-03-05

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2025-03-14

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Lee, A., & Iskandar, A. (2025). Social Desirability and Its Effect on Help-Seeking: Mediated by Shame. Journal of Adolescent and Youth Psychological Studies (JAYPS). https://doi.org/10.61838/